One of the things about BBRTS working in its favor, for honesty, is that it's a place that's unashamedly about bareback sex, whether that's on PrEP, with someone undetectable, with sero-sorting, or just not caring one way or the other. How widespread? I'd say fairly, but not an order of magnitude more than the average lying on other social-interaction (date/hookup) apps & websites. the Tops are going to fuck me when they choose whether they’re honest or not, and that’s the truth.
An answer to mine isn’t really necessary, and the question is just food for thought. An answer to the OP’s question is possible from the combined observations of the group. So if apps like BBRTS have made it ridiculous not to expect to be lied to, how widespread is it (how prevalent has it become)? - OP’s original question and: How did we allow that to become the norm to the point that expecting the opposite is ridiculous? - mine.
And I guess that just serves to underscore the OP’s question, then, because BBRTS is designed as a hookup site rather than a dating site (the RTS stands for ‘Real Time Sex’ after all) rather than a dating site. I'm saying it's part of the quickie culture that reliability pretty much goes by the wayside.įair enough. That's not being judgmental of either quickie tops or cumdump bottoms. There are too many other options that may present themselves along the way and once he's done, he's done. If you want people who are going to be true to their word and do what they say, you're less likely (much less, in my opinion, but that's just my opinion) to find that reliably among guys who are solely hunting for a hole to dump in. Of course we're not talking about the same population of men here. My sense is that the kind of behavior the OP is talking about comes mostly from guys interested in quick, NSA hookups, but I coild be wrong. I doubt that you would get as many who would be so careless with lies like being Undetectable on one app and toxic on another if they’re going to sit down and swap notes with another guy over coffee - that’s how the truth comes out. Men who are willing to engage in a non-sexual meetup as a precursor to a sexual one are In a very different frame of mind than men looking for a hole to dump a load into or a submissive cunt to wreck because they’re aggressive, dominant and horny. I’m not sure we’re talking about the same populations of men here.